If they message you first, you’ll get to (over)analyze their choice of joke, greeting, or observation about your profile pic. So you close the app, go about your amazing life, and then check it later to find there’s still no message from your match. What gives?! At this point, you’ll probably be wondering if women should message first on dating apps and the answer is – yes, girl!
Picture this – you match with a super cutie on a dating app, think about what to type to them, and then decide to wait
4 percent of women say that women should send the first message compared to 9.8 percent of men who say the same.